Eleanor “Nellie” Davis (1923-2007) was Louanne Bowden’s paternal grandmother. She was named Eleanor and called Nellie for her own great-grandmother, Nellie Phelps (1855-1922). Nellie Phelps had died the year prior to Louanne’s grandmother’s birth.
The Phelps family had come from England to America in the 1690s, the first Phelps born in Pennsylvania was William Phelps (1721). From Pennsylvania the family went to Tennessee and began farming. Nellie Phelps had two brothers, Burch and Jethro (“Jed”). Their parents, were another William Phelps (1834-1872) and his wife Martha Massey (1835-1862). Martha died when Nellie was eight, probably from some kind of “heart sickness” after Burch, their oldest, had died from a fever. She had never been happy on the frontier anyway, and just went to bed one day and never got up.
Nellie and her brother Jed were left with their father to tend to the farm, which they did for nearly a decade before William, too, got sick with consumption. He died when Nellie was 17 and Jed only sixteen (see song “I Didn’t Know What Else to Do”). When Nellie got married the next year to Robert Abbott, they and Jed all went to Texas where the Abbotts had a nice sized ranch.
Nellie lived a long life in Texas, but Jed died young, only 32, as a Texas Ranger in the Indian wars.